What Makes It Strict?

I wrote about Sensual Dominance  over at Sensual Cock teasing.  Go check it out!

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Strict Dominance

Even though there are gray areas between strict and sensual dominance, I think it’s a lot easier to quantify strict dominance.  CBT, impact play, predicament bondage – all the tools of the strict Femdom.  Having you get naked for me and crawl around on the floor on your belly while I tell you how pathetic you are?  Strict Femdom.

It’s Coerced Control

When I wrote about sensual dominance, I said it was about taking control of you – or, more specifically, your cock.  With someone who wants to be sensually dominated, my experience is that you want to be controlled, you want me to guide you and tell you what to do.  With strict dominance, that control is coerced.  Oh, I think you still want to give it up, you just want there to be a struggle for it.  You want to make believe when I sit on your face you don’t want to lick my pussy – until I start to whip your cock and balls (Of course, we know that’s not true, don’t we?  Of course you want to eat me out!)

Pushing Limits

A strict domination session is also good for exploring limits.  I had a sub once who was leery about taking a caning.  I secured him to my spanking bench, and told him in no uncertain terms he was going to get the cane that night – and he was going to beg for it!  I began to flog and crop him, every once in a while, reaching down, and stroking his cock, until he was worked up into a frenzy and begging to cum.  I just told him that wasn’t what he needed to beg for.  After some more teasing and edging, he was begging for the cane – and I wasn’t going to deny him!  He got the cane – and a mind-blowing orgasm as well!  Now he’s a pain slut…go figure…


 

Some Basic Bondage Ideas, Part 2

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Make sure you read Part 1.  That’s got all the safety tips!

Self Bondage

As a Phone Sex Femdom, I can’t be there when we’re playing bondage games, so we need to come up with some self-bondage techniques that you can use.

Spread Out For Me

The first one is the . . . → Read More: Some Basic Bondage Ideas, Part 2

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Some Basic Bondage Ideas, Part 1

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Safety First

As a Phone Sex Femdom, whenever I play bondage games with my callers, I always keep safety in mind first.  So, before we even get to my ideas for tying you up, let’s get that out of the way.

 Always have a plan for getting out.  One way is to . . . → Read More: Some Basic Bondage Ideas, Part 1


 

Another Kinky Roadtrip

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Getting Off Again

Kinky road trip

Well my sluts, slaves and pets, the weather has gotten warmer and this biker bitch had to get out on the open road!  If you’ve read my post over at The Daily Cock, you know I was headed out on another road trip.  That dildo is shined up . . . → Read More: Another Kinky Roadtrip


 

Painful Chastity

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Where’s The Pain In Chastity

It’s all about denying yourself for your Mistress, isn’t it?  She’s taken control of your cock, and she gets decide what to do with it.  Will she lock it away, never to play with it again?  Well, that would be boring!  Of course she’s going to take . . . → Read More: Painful Chastity