What can you do for your Mistress?

What can you do for your Mistress?

First of all let me explain why I ask this question.  There is a solid difference between being a bowl of grits and a phone sex submissive.  Ok yeah how did food come into this picture?  Well, I have found that those submissive that are physically close to me and that I play with fall into what I call the Grits category.

Submission and Grits

I believe that all submissives to varying degrees fall into the spectrum of a bowl of grits.  Grits are a stable in the south that has endless variations that can be created.  They are the staple on which I feed my physical needs and test new recipes on.  And whether you are classified as one of my bowls of grits or as an online submissive to a phone sex mistress you all have certain traits that are quit universal.

Service verses obedience

Each of you falls on this line in various positions.  Some of you are more service oriented and others are more obedience centered.  Now my grits provide me with certain services that you cannot so how can you in actuality be of service and or obedient to me?

Submissive service

A submissive who leans toward the service side of things is one who enjoys doing things for me not because I say so, but instead because they know it simply pleases me.  For example: one bowl of grits (yes I actually do call them that) makes my coffee and espresso exactly the way I like it every time.  I don’t have to tell him each time how to do it he just does it. Now I know that is not something you as a submissive to a phone sex Mistress can do; however there are things that some of my subbies do.  One of my subbies knows that I enjoy getting things not because I demanded them but because they make me smile.  He often goes online and looks at my wish and (keeping within his budget) finds things that will simply make me smile.  He has taken the time to learn what my preferences are for certain things and chooses to find them for me even if they are not a perfect match to what is on my wishlist.

Obedient submission

Those of you who lean toward the obedience side prefer to wait until told to do or get something for me.  For example; one of my bowls of grits gets all clumped up and sticky when she is not told to do things for me and will sit at my feet fidgeting when she needs  direction.  Now I realize that spending the entire day in a sexy texting session so you can fulfill this need in you is well honestly far beyond what most can do; however I do have one subbie who knows my passion and love for literature in all its forms, particularly my love of old books.  He also knows that I enjoy them because they are a simple distraction from my everyday world that I treasure.  Knowing my eclectic personality means that he can’t just provide me with one single distraction and so he finds, creates, writes many of them and waits for my cue before offering them up for my pleasure.  In this way he is fulfilling his need to be obediently of service.

Where do fall on that line of service and obedience?  What things have you done or would like to do for your phone sex Mistress to fulfill both our needs?  I would enjoy helping you add  these things to your list of domination instructions.

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