Humiliation makes me wet
Humiliation seems to be one of those things that people seem to be sharply divided on. On one side of the line, you have the people who would never even consider that it would be hot, no matter how many other kinks they happen to have. On the other side, you have the people who will probably never give up their humiliation fetish, even if something catastrophic were to happen. I hardly ever see anyone cross from one side of the line to the other.
Have you ever wondered why that is? I think it’s because humiliation is always so personal. I mean, what humiliates you might just make your friend laugh or vice-versa. Plus, humiliation is almost always exclusively focused on a person’s perceived flaws or shortcomings. Some people are comfortable with exposing that much of themselves to another person, and some are not. That’s completely understandable in my book.
Speaking of “exposure,” I’m pretty sure that’s why CFNM is such a common fantasy among people who enjoy humiliation. If humiliation itself is a form of exposing oneself, then CFNM is just taking a figurative concept and making it literal.
I do love to humiliate men who are brave enough to show me their flaws, though.
Many of the men I talk to enjoy doing just that, and I just can’t get enough of it.
What about you? Which side of the line do you fall on?
Are you a total humiliation slut who’s down for just about anything, or do you prefer to not be humiliated at all?
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Mistress Gemma, you’ve got me thinking. I thought I was one of those totally against humiliation … and yet I love CFNM.
I see now that humiliation (just like spanking and a little CBT) is not necessarily the same as cruelty. Your definition of it as feeling “exposure” is nearer the mark. Exposure is daring and exciting. And it leads to a deeper and more intimate experience when one “opens up” to Mistress. “Little dick!” expresses far more intimate attention than “Nice shoes!”
Thank you, Mistress Gemma, for exposing another kink that I can now enjoy more freely.
PS You have the look in your eyes for perfectly thrilling CFNM fantasies!
Oh I am so glad that you are discovering more kinks that you enjoy and yes you do have look right into my eyes every time I speak to you while you are exposed and naked on your knees.